Why do some people think it is being self-centered when we take care of ourselves and don’t ask anyone else to do it which means we don’t run to make anyone else happy as well but give them that right to do it by themselves? Well, actually it is being self-centered if thinking literally but it does not mean it is wrong. We have to be self-centered in a way that makes us take responsibility for our own lives and not to interfere others as they have their own responsibilities. But what society teaches is to interfere wherever and whenever you can and put the responsibility for your own emotional and physical well-being on other people shoulders. It teaches us to sacrifice our own happiness disguised by the lie that this is what makes others happy. Result is that we struggle and cannot find out why we are not happy, where is the happiness, who has to makes us happy and so on. Everyone who was given life has a right and responsibility to take care of it. ~ Liis Sillaste
lf you can’t make yourself happy, you will never be able to make someone else happy. So it makes sense when your happy you tend to make others happy. So smile, be good to yourself and you will be happy.
It’s always best to follow your own plans each and every day. Don’t let other people get in your way they have their own paths to follow. ~ Donna Ferguson